Intentional Relationship Solutions (w/ Dan Houk) – Episode 163
Some of the greatest servants, volunteers and workers in any local church are often single folks who are looking for community and a place to belong.
Practical conversations for small and midsize church leaders.
Hosted by Dale Sellers, Executive Director of 95Network and former small church pastor, the 95Podcast addresses the real challenges pastors face every week—from church health, leadership clarity, to the everyday realities of leading without large staff or large budgets. These are straightforward conversations rooted in experience, not theory.
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Some of the greatest servants, volunteers and workers in any local church are often single folks who are looking for community and a place to belong.
Evaluating your discipleship process is a must. The need for effective mentoring and relational discipleship is so desperately needed.
One of the first things you can do is foster a spirit of grace and kindness that permeates your church culture: squash divisiveness, judgment, and discontent.
It’s not healthy to compare trauma from one person to another. Trauma is trauma. It doesn’t matter the “source” of your trauma whether it’s from vocational situations or even your upbringing. There’s no benefit in “downplaying” your trauma just because it doesn’t sound as serious as someone else’s.
Pink Theology was written to communicate how we can learn through serious study of Scripture a new level of trust. It’s one thing to say I believe in God’s Word. However, it’s another thing entirely to see your belief become reality.
Nicole has devoted her life to sharing Jesus with anyone and everyone along with training churches in practical ways of sharing their faith.
Stacey joins Dale to talk about many things impacting the church as well as society currently. His work with church leaders through Compassion International is having a big impact in America as well as around the world.
“Freedom is not the absence of something, it’s the presence of Someone.” Bob Hamp, Founder of Think Differently Academy, forever changed Dale’s life and ministry.
Rusty joins Dale on today’s podcast to discuss how he came face to face with some deep seated issues, hurts and trauma that could no longer be avoided. He transparently walks us through his path to healing as he has sought the much needed help he was looking for.
The Lord has been so faithful in Davey’s life as he discovered a level of grace and comfort that most people never know.
There is tremendous freedom to pursue what you are best at when you give away all of the other ministry aspects that aren’t necessarily in your wheelhouse.
This podcast is sure to challenge even the most resistant skeptic on how important it is to make the shift to adding a robust digital focus to your ministry in order to reach new people. Jesse’s passion to support pastors comes through loud and clear as he shares his heart for developing impactful digital ministry.
Fault leads to shame; responsibility leads to freedom. Responsibility shows you what you can actually change and release what you cannot control.
Discernment stays human. AI can help refine communication, brainstorm, or summarize—but leaders must verify and own what’s shared.
Connection starts with God first. If leaders are not connected to God, they will not lead people into meaningful connection.
Kids ministry deserves top-tier support. If the mission includes evangelism and disciple-making, the next generation should be resourced accordingly.
Most pastors aren’t refusing rest—they’re trapped by systems. Without a plan (and a bench), even a short break can feel impossible.
Preparation beats panic. Healthy leaders build a plan before the crisis—then execute calmly when disruption hits.
Equipping can’t be reduced to a weekly performance; it requires presence, relationship, modeling, and shared life.
Prayer isn’t the warm-up—it’s the engine. Ministry strength doesn’t come from personal drive; it comes from dependence on Jesus and consistent prayer.
“If you got a pulse, he’s got a purpose for you.” Retirement isn’t the end of ministry; it’s a new season with fresh opportunities to serve, mentor, and impact the kingdom.
Self-awareness protects leaders from self-deception. Honest feedback is a guardrail for character and culture.
Build discipleship around practice, not just information. People grow through doing, feedback, and repetition in relationships.