Blindspots Eventually Lead To Being Blindsided!
The reason you get blindsided isn’t just to stop you from being effective today. It’s much more than that. The ultimate purpose is to destroy your ability to be effective in the future.
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The reason you get blindsided isn’t just to stop you from being effective today. It’s much more than that. The ultimate purpose is to destroy your ability to be effective in the future.
“It’s not ministry that’s killing you; it’s the boxes and stereotypes you’re trying to live in.”
My heart surgeon considered the stress of ministry to be a major contributor to my condition, which he termed a “widow-maker.”
“People go through their whole Christian life without realizing there’s a whole side of the world with no access to the gospel.”
It’s a hard cross to bear when you believe that Jesus is disappointed with you.
“We pastors have not been good or healthy on the whole for generations.”
In most instances, the pressure we feel is coming from the inside. But we keep pressing on, and the very joy of living gets sucked right out of us.
“The only way to fail at AI right now is to ignore it. You don’t have to love it, but you do have to understand it.”
I eventually realized the main issue for me was not really know where “there” was. Wherever it was, I knew that I hadn’t been able to find it.
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Discouraged. It’s how every leader has felt at one point or another when we want to be somewhere we’re not. Dale navigated his own experiences of disappointment in himself and uncovered key truths about leadership in ministry that can anchor and guide us today.
Dale Sellers of 95Network believes this trend is largely due to discouragement among our pastors. Many church leaders begin ministry with dreams of making an eternal impact. But years of striving, stress, and strain have left them feeling defeated, disillusioned, and stalled.
Thankfully, there is hope that ministry can turn around for the discouraged pastor. As a former minister who’s been in the trenches, Dale Sellers reveals that:
In STALLED, you will discover your sweet spot and realize you are closer to being “there” than you know.
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Advanced preparation eliminates urgency. It will also free up a great deal of time for you once you’ve paid the dues to get started.
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