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It’s possible for you and I to arrive at a place just like Mary. Previous experience begins to cloud our ability to see beyond the here and now. But I believe Jesus has so much more for us as we diligently seek Him.
“If Jesus called you to start. If Jesus didn’t tell you to quit. And you if you want to honor Him by obeying what He’s asked you to do then you best need to stay with what you’re doing. Or else, you will come to a place in your life that you’ll have to start all over again. However, you’ll just be further behind.”
Anticipate visitor questions before they arrive: Where do I park? What door do I use? What about my kids? What should I wear? Answer these clearly on your website and communications.
If “it must be my fault” is your default setting, you are not alone. You are also not stuck. Freedom starts when you begin to ask better questions: What am I actually responsible for? What am I not responsible for? And what does God say is true right here?
Perhaps the words spoken into your soul continue speaking to you today. The fact is that your father, mother, coach, teacher, boss, pastor, or other authority figure thought he or she was helping you reach your potential. He thought he was making you a better person. She was probably just doing to you what had been done to her. Whatever the reasoning of those people, they most likely have no idea the effect their words had on you.
Most pastors carry father wounds (known or unknown) that shape how they relate to God as Father; healing requires naming shortcomings, connecting unmet desires to Scripture, and experiencing God’s personal care.
“Any pastor who becomes addicted to the approval of people will eventually be slaughtered by their disapproval.” In other words, if we don’t deal with our need for approval, our negligence can lead to the end of our ministries. It may even bring the end to our marriages or other key relationships.
Jerry Bostick, flight dynamics officer for the Apollo 13 mission, was once asked, “Weren’t there times when everybody, or at least a few people, just panicked?” He answered, “No, when bad things happened, we just calmly laid out all the options, and failure was not one of them. We never panicked, and we never gave up on finding a solution.”
Discouraged. It’s how every leader has felt at one point or another when we want to be somewhere we’re not. Dale navigated his own experiences of disappointment in himself and uncovered key truths about leadership in ministry that can anchor and guide us today.
Dale Sellers of 95Network believes this trend is largely due to discouragement among our pastors. Many church leaders begin ministry with dreams of making an eternal impact. But years of striving, stress, and strain have left them feeling defeated, disillusioned, and stalled.
Thankfully, there is hope that ministry can turn around for the discouraged pastor. As a former minister who’s been in the trenches, Dale Sellers reveals that:
In STALLED, you will discover your sweet spot and realize you are closer to being “there” than you know.
All episodes will be posted here on the website, and are also available wherever you listen to podcasts.
Hosted by Caralee Culpepper and Dale Sellers, our executive director, and a former small church pastor, our 95Network podcast is a wealth of information specifically for small-church pastors—delivered in a candid, kind, and concise way. We cover pressing topics in modern ministry, annual trends, and more.
In all communications, make the decision of who you’re trying to reach, what your message is to them, and why you are doing it in the first place.
The personal God gets personal with us. Biblical counseling explores the active, desiring heart beneath behavior and connects it to Christ’s finished work and the Spirit’s present ministry.
Self-awareness protects leaders from self-deception. Honest feedback is a guardrail for character and culture.
Build discipleship around practice, not just information. People grow through doing, feedback, and repetition in relationships.
In this episode, Dale & Joseph interview trauma counselor Bridget Trammell about trauma, triggers, religious abuse, purity culture, and practical steps pastors can take to heal and lead healthier churches.
We usually have it backwards. . . Most of us rest from work. However, God’s desire for us is that we work from rest.
Fault leads to shame; responsibility leads to freedom. Responsibility shows you what you can actually change and release what you cannot control.
Discernment stays human. AI can help refine communication, brainstorm, or summarize—but leaders must verify and own what’s shared.
RightNow Media has content from over 400 Christian publishers, tens of thousands of Bible studies, conferences, training sessions, kid’s cartoons, and much more. As a pastor partnered with 95Network, you are receiving FREE personal access to this resource!
Connection starts with God first. If leaders are not connected to God, they will not lead people into meaningful connection.
Kids ministry deserves top-tier support. If the mission includes evangelism and disciple-making, the next generation should be resourced accordingly.
Most pastors aren’t refusing rest—they’re trapped by systems. Without a plan (and a bench), even a short break can feel impossible.
Listen to Dale on The Stetzer ChurchLeader Podcast w/ Ed Stetzer discussing his book:
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